Thursday, April 7, 2011

Footprints




Some people
come into our lives
and
quickly go.
Others
stay a while,
leave footprints
on our souls
and
we will never, ever be the same.
-R. Hoskins


This is a difficult post,
but
one that I feel
the need to share.
I have
posted
a
few
really
special
"Petit Soleil"
serendipitous
moments
with you,
and
have
shared
a
few
very
special
Petit Soleil
guests
with you

but
this
story
left
a
footprint
on
my
soul



Cal Poly's
2011 Freshman,
and their families
are beginning
to arrive
into town
for
orientation
and
school tours.
The
excitement
is
contagious.

Three years ago we felt this same excitement as a young man from Austin TX,
Carson,
and his family
were
touring
Cal Poly and San Luis Obispo
and
were
making
the final decision
for Carson
to become a
Cal Poly
Mustang.
Tall,
lean
an obvious athlete,
with
charm
and
a
Texas size smile,
Carson
won over our hearts
(and the hearts of
all the
young Cal Poly girls
that work at Petit, as well)

Carson's family,
equally
as
warm and charming,
shared in the
excitement
of
his future
of
architecture,
mountain bicycle adventures,
and
hopeful dreams

The dreams changed.



Carson
died
of
alcohol poisoning
at
a
Fraternity
initiation
party
December 2, 2008
...
hazing was
the
alleged crime


Time stopped

for
his family,
friends,
and
everyone else that he touched


was
started
by
Carson's family
to honor
his
legacy
...
to educate
children, young adults
and their families
about
hazing,
bullying
and
alcohol poisoning
...


Cal Poly
honored
Carson
last week
with
the dedication of
a bicycle rack
in
an
emotional
ceremony
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Carson's family
along with
Cal Poly
want
to ensure,
through education,
a
safe
transition
for kids
into
adulthood
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The
day was perfect
warm
and breezy
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young
people
sang
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and many
just
listened,
cried
or
quietly remembered
Carson
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Carson's
roommates
and
closest friends
gathered
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with
his
parents
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will
be
honoring
Carson's
memory



Parents!
educate yourselves
and educate your children


Young People!!!
Never
Ever
let anyone
bully
you
...
never
become
a
bully

Please read
about
Carson Starkey

after knowing him
I will
never
ever
be
the same

Monday, April 4, 2011

Happiness is....


IMG_0708, originally uploaded by TTT with Toulouse.

I believe that kids are like boomerangs!
Whoooosh.....you send them off to college and they spin and twirl and whoosh..
back to you they come!
Secretly, I am thrilled to have them back in SLO; chatting it up with the guests at Petit, eating up leftovers at home, filling up our DVR with hundreds of "Sex in the City" episodes and ESPN programs and whipping our butts (mine and John's) at Cranium, Catch Phrase, Rummikub and Yahtzee. I love their energy and their ability to always keep us guessing.
I did find this plaque - on FACEBOOK,( believe it or not), while I was stalking pictures of the newest arrivals at a charming little shop in Paso Robles called The Cottage. I sent Sandy a message to hold one for me.
John permanently adhered the plaque right in between the doors of Annie and Andrew's rooms (always their rooms whether they live here of not).
I hope they remember what they read here:

Happiness is not a destination it is a way of life.
(I know I appreciate the daily reminder, too)